I just read this by Lindsey Petersen of 5kidswdisabilities
and thought you would all appreciate it. It rings true for so many parents, not just those of ADHD kids.
Hope you enjoy...
The ABCs of ADHD
December 27, 2009 by 5kidswdisabilities
The ABCs of ADHD/ADD
I’ve read the articles and books on ADHD. I know the discipline methods, rewards and time outs, the methods of Ross Green (from The Explosive Child) and the medications that work best. But I also know the realities of ADHD, having 2 children with ADHD and 2 with ADD. In real life terms, the ABCs of ADHD/ADD are:
Always on alert for dangerous situations due to impulsive behaviors, such as running across streets without looking, grabbing a butcher knife to cut the end off a banana, running up the down escalator, and grabbing the dog or any other animal roughly and the dog (or other animal) retaliating by biting (or scratching.)
Be careful! Be careful” is the parent mantra.
climbing climbing: out of the crib at age 15 months, out of the bedroom window when a teenager, on rock walls and curbstones and couches.
touch that! Don’t do that! Don’t hit her! Don’t pull that! Don’t eat that! Don’t hurt it! Don’t break it!
parents trying their best to keep up.
Go! Go! They’re always on the go!
parents, unable to control their child’s behavior, especially embarrassing in the grocery store under the staring eyes of others, judging them.
only he’d… If only she’d…. Parents dream for a different lifestyle.
Bean: he goes here and there from friend to friend to friend, never staying long enough to establish a real friendship.
walls are written on, bathroom doors have holes kicked in, curtains are ripped, bedrooms are messy.
Parents give unconditional love, but the behavior doesn’t change because the ADHD remains…
MEDICATION! MEDICATION! Alleluia when it works!!!!
paying attention in school so schoolwork suffers: not paying attention for homework, so it’s a nightly fight: not paying attention to other’s feelings, so no friendships are formed.
happens easily and tantrums result. Keep it quiet. Keep it simple. Keep it under stimulated for peace.
are our best friends!
Questions from them all the time! Especially hard to escape when you are stuck riding in the car together.
for good behaviors; stickers, ice cream, Playstation, tv.
is low, parent and teacher patience is limited so he’s always the troublemaker and never measures up.
in the seat till we’re blue in the face. All the time spent in time-outs would add up to a year in the life.
is needed from parents, family, friends and teachers; understanding is often in short supply.
draining on all, child and adults.
whining, whining until their parent’s ears hurt.
CAT Scans and emergency room visits: active behavior results in injuries.
What has he done NOW?!?!
for life would be a polite way of putting it…
Bonnie Terry, M. Ed., BCET